What can I do if I see abuse in a retirement home?
Question & AnswerWhat can I do if I see abuse in a retirement home?
1. Learn about abuse
The Retirement Homes Act states what abuse and neglect are in retirement homes. It explains what is meant by emotional, financial, physical, sexual and verbal abuse.
Elder abuse happens when someone limits or controls an ’s rights and freedoms. The older adult cannot make choices freely because they’re afraid of being hurt or left alone, or that the relationship with the abuser will end.
Who are abusers
Abusers of residents can be:
- family members
- spouses or partners
- other residents
- caregivers, who are paid or not paid
- friends or other trusted people in the resident’s life
- people who a resident relies on for financial help
- staff or the operator of the retirement home
- anyone else who comes onto the retirement home property
Types of abuse
Abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, or financial. It can also be abuse if someone is neglected or not cared for properly.
Physical abuse is violence or rough treatment, such as when someone:
- hits, punches, or pushes an older adult
- confines or restrains an older adult
Sexual abuse is sexual behaviour that an older adult does not agree to or know is happening, such as:
- inappropriate touching
- sexual comments
- forced sexual contact
Emotional abuse makes an older adult lose their sense of self. This can happen through:
- insults, bullying, humiliation, threats, or shaming
- controlling their activities
- stopping contact with friends and family
Financial abuse is when someone controls or takes an older adult’s property, such as:
- stealing money or controlling how it’s spent
- putting pressure on the older adult to sell their belongings, sign legal documents, or give money to relatives or caregivers
- misusing a , for example, using the person’s money for their own benefit
Neglect happens when someone who agreed to provide care to an older adult does not look after their basic needs. This includes:
- stopping them from getting home care or medical care
- leaving them in an unsafe place
- not providing food, proper clothing, or bathing or personal hygiene